The first is DREAM BIG. This attitude tells me that life is whatever you make it, so why not do absolutely anything you want? Passion is something that's unmistakable, and it will definitely take you places. And your life is a long one, is it not plausible that you can get there someday?
My second philosophy is a little more thought-out, and it starts in the Great Depression. Back in the day, there wasn't all the glitz and glamor of specialization (at least not much further than what you can do with your hands). When you were old enough, you went out to work. There was no questioning if your job gave you a deep sense of purpose, you just cared about whether or not you would eat that night. It's so interesting learning from my 93-year-old great aunt, because the world she grew up in is so much different from ours.
Now, the norm is going to college after high school, most often to "find yourself". We have options; we're allowed to dream. Why does it seem like so many of my peers have dealt with depression or "soul-searching", in some way? It's because we have time to. We're tricked into believing that there's some perfect career out there waiting for us. We want to believe we have a calling. And we want that to be what defines us.
But you know what? This is wishful thinking. Sure, there are plenty of people who discover their dreams, but for the most part, that's not what working is about. Work is work. We do it because we have to. When it comes down to it, that is our lot in life and maybe, just maybe, we'll be able to chase our dreams on our own time.
So where do these two, very differing philosophies leave me? Again, it comes down to integration. The second was a shot of reality I definitely needed. I have to stop searching for that "dream job" and see that my career isn't going to be quite as romanticized as I'd always imagined. But at the same time, the DREAM BIG part is still with me. There's always those hopes, and like I said, life is long. I have all the time in the world to pursue what calls to me, which, in all honesty, is ever-adapting. I really feel that, someday, I may go back to school for that doctorate in Statistics. I can see myself leading a research team for cancer treatments, or the EPA, or somewhere else that can really make an impact. Or maybe there will be some other big dream for me, who knows? But for now I need to do what I need to do (dare I call it settling?). I realize that you can't make everything happen all at once and besides, if I did, what would I have left to dream about??? :)
What about you all? Which side of the fence do you sit on?